WHAT DOES SPIRITUAL RESILIENCE LOOK LIKE?
Spiritually resilient people are generally calm, hopeful and kind. We're drawn to them and somehow feel better when we're in their presence. They have a strength that radiates from within and a dedication to others' welfare. They are willing to engage with suffering, their own and others'.
Eight spiritual emotions especially characterize spiritually resilient people: Gratitude, hope, compassion, awe, serenity, joy, inspiration and love.
Back in the old days we might have called these virtues. Virtues are what happens when emotions and attitudes become habits. Our spiritual heroes demonstrate what these virtues truly look like, and on our better days we wish we could be more like them.
You'll notice these emotions feel good while moving us beyond ourselves to connect with other people and a reality greater than ourselves. I propose that spiritual practices are one powerful means of growing in spiritual resilience. The Spiritual Resilience Project is based on incorporating traditional spiritual practices - refined by new understanding of how our body/spirits function - into our everyday lives. None of these practices is new, but some have fallen into disuse. We can tailor them to our own life rhythms, and make a difference in less than 60 minutes a week.
WHAT ARE SPIRITUAL PRACTICES?
Spiritual practices are things we do on a regular basis to help bring us back to center. They involve our whole selves - body, mind and spirit - rather than just our intellects. We will focus especially on these practices:
THE POWER IS IN THE DOING
More than once when browsing in a boutique shop I've seen a post, "Sure, you could make it yourself. But will you?" Understanding the logic of spiritual emotions and practices doesn't change anything, any more than buying exercise equipment makes us fit. Actually engaging in spiritual practices has a positive impact on our nervous systems - and opens us up to the grace of God we so often pass by. When we incorporate spiritual practices into our daily lives, giving them the attention they are due, we are like travelers putting canoes into the river, still paddling but allowing the current help carry us to our destination.
WE'RE STRONGER TOGETHER
If possible, I encourage you to find a buddy or a small group to begin this adventure together. Partners not only help us stay accountable; they also share stories and encouragement along the way. I have been part of an accountability group for more than thirty years, and it has helped me stay anchored through storms and calm. There is a kind of connection that happens in spiritual sharing that is precious and all too rare. The most powerful conversations are not thinking about theory, but sharing how we are being transformed by what we believe and practice.
Spiritually resilient people are generally calm, hopeful and kind. We're drawn to them and somehow feel better when we're in their presence. They have a strength that radiates from within and a dedication to others' welfare. They are willing to engage with suffering, their own and others'.
Eight spiritual emotions especially characterize spiritually resilient people: Gratitude, hope, compassion, awe, serenity, joy, inspiration and love.
Back in the old days we might have called these virtues. Virtues are what happens when emotions and attitudes become habits. Our spiritual heroes demonstrate what these virtues truly look like, and on our better days we wish we could be more like them.
You'll notice these emotions feel good while moving us beyond ourselves to connect with other people and a reality greater than ourselves. I propose that spiritual practices are one powerful means of growing in spiritual resilience. The Spiritual Resilience Project is based on incorporating traditional spiritual practices - refined by new understanding of how our body/spirits function - into our everyday lives. None of these practices is new, but some have fallen into disuse. We can tailor them to our own life rhythms, and make a difference in less than 60 minutes a week.
WHAT ARE SPIRITUAL PRACTICES?
Spiritual practices are things we do on a regular basis to help bring us back to center. They involve our whole selves - body, mind and spirit - rather than just our intellects. We will focus especially on these practices:
- Blessing
- Surrender/letting go
- Music
- Gratitude moments
- One-liners
- Storytelling
- Service
THE POWER IS IN THE DOING
More than once when browsing in a boutique shop I've seen a post, "Sure, you could make it yourself. But will you?" Understanding the logic of spiritual emotions and practices doesn't change anything, any more than buying exercise equipment makes us fit. Actually engaging in spiritual practices has a positive impact on our nervous systems - and opens us up to the grace of God we so often pass by. When we incorporate spiritual practices into our daily lives, giving them the attention they are due, we are like travelers putting canoes into the river, still paddling but allowing the current help carry us to our destination.
WE'RE STRONGER TOGETHER
If possible, I encourage you to find a buddy or a small group to begin this adventure together. Partners not only help us stay accountable; they also share stories and encouragement along the way. I have been part of an accountability group for more than thirty years, and it has helped me stay anchored through storms and calm. There is a kind of connection that happens in spiritual sharing that is precious and all too rare. The most powerful conversations are not thinking about theory, but sharing how we are being transformed by what we believe and practice.
About Connie Fourré
I was blessed to grow up in a home where God's presence was celebrated. Life wasn't perfect, but those early years were rich in spirit. I spent twenty-five years in a Catholic high school religion classroom with high school students, talking about God, the world and their lives. I raised five kids and wrote a few books. My lifelong spiritual influences include my Catholic heritage, the cockeyed Jesus movement of the 1970's, recent mindfulness training, and my current interfaith work. I live with my husband in the Minneapolis area.
These days I'm dismayed by many things, among them the fading of the Christian churches. In the last few years of teaching I would ask my students. "OK, so you're not gonna do church. Then what? How do you find and remember to live according to what you know is really important?" Today I ask myself, "How do we preserve the human heart as Jesus taught us?" Tending to spiritual emotions through understanding and spiritual practices is one method among many. I hope to share it with you.
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